The very first thing that women like is strong self confident men. Even if you are not strong or self confident, you must act like it and fake it til you make it. I am not saying lie, but you need to act more self confident. Pretty soon you are feeling more self confident. One of the things that will help your self confidence is taking karate. It engenders more self confidence plus strength, plus being able to protect the woman that you care about. This self confidence projects itself to potential bullies. When you show no fear because you know that you can take him out, guys read that in your eyes and will back down.
Women like gentlemen with manners, opening the door for the woman, giving her your jacket when she is cold, going to get the car when it is raining and picking her up at the door.
Learning to talk with confidence to a woman. The best way to do that is to take control of the conversation by constantly asking her questions like:
Where do you hope to be in five years, what do you like to do for fun, what are your career goals. Just keep asking questions which will make you appear very calm and self confident. The woman has to do most of the talking taking the pressure off of you. By asking her questions, you show her that you are interested in her.
Take the lead and plan fun dates. These dates should involve walking and talking. Sitting in a movie theatre does little for conversation. Take her to outdoor art shows, air shows, county or state fairs, car shows, flea markets, farmers markets, bowling, shopping at the mall. The main thing that it should make for easy conversation. For a home run, enroll both of you in a single cooking class together. The other thing is to learn to cook some great dishes and cook for her. Nothing makes a woman feel pampered than when a guy cooks for her.
Give her a sincere compliment not related to her figure. Tell her that she has beautiful eyes or pretty hair. Compliment her scent or perfume.
Compliment what she is wearing and tell her that you really admire her sense of style.
Once she is ready to take it to the next level, you need to be prepared to be good in bed. Study articles on foreplay techniques. Take your time and don’t rush it. You can see some articles that I have written online by googling my email address firstname.lastname@example.org on the subject of sex and how to be a hero in the bedroom. Go out there and use this stuff. You can contact me for a half hour free consultation.