And To Obey Him, Another Great Guest Post

This is the second time that I have reposted from this blog. This young lady has it down and explains the secret to “happily ever after” I commend her blog to you, read and enjoy. Here is the link to her blog.

http://themochacafe.com/2010/06/07/and-to-obey-him/

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June 7, 2010 by mstryst 5 Comments

This weekend I had the opportunity to finally watch the animated movie Up. It was the tale of a man who marries his childhood sweetheart. When his wife dies, he devotes the remainder of his life to fulfill her childhood dreams. It was a beautiful depiction of lifelong devotion and commitment to love and a person. But how do you really know this is the person whom you are meant to share the rest of your life?

I begin to think about a conversation some friends and I had at a friend’s wedding some months ago. The conversation was centered around the more traditional vows that were exchanged during the ceremony. “..Do you take him be your lawful, wedded husband for as long as you both shall live, to love him, cherish him, honour him, comfort him, respect him, and to obey him according to God’s Law?” It had been years, at least ten, since I had heard the “and to obey him” included in the vows. We, as women, have gotten away from those terms and detest the notion of being obedient and submissive to a man.

However, what if that was the tool for determining the man a woman should marry- one she would obey? Obedience over the years has gained a bad rep for no apparent reason. Children used to obey their parents. Employees used to obey their boss. Wives used to obey their husbands. Then, when obedience was prominent, our communities were certainly better…

Obedience first requires respect which I can only imagine is useful, if not vital, in a marriage. I would say, the next ingredient in obedience is trust. Trust is often only associated with fidelity. However, the greater need may be for a woman to trust her husband to make the best decisions for his family. This trust in him is that he will put his needs and wants behind those of his family. For me, this would be a solid indicator of husband material because I don’t think there are too many men that can match my brilliance. You see, women often catch the details most men miss and add the compassion some men lack. I am often forced to add a woman’s touch to ensure success of any project. So a man that not only sees the big picture but pays attention to the details with delicacy and care distinguishes himself from the pack. Such a man deserves those eternal and traditional vows of obedience. He would in turn take the vow to be the devoted and committed husband of the movie Up.

5 Responses to And To Obey Him, Another Great Guest Post

  1. tightknot says:

    This is a very nice post indeed. Can you give the link to her blog please?

  2. tightknot says:

    Thanks so much John. I appreciate it.

  3. believe what... says:

    I totally disagree. Men these days think a woman should obey under his rules. It would be great to trust a man in that he would put you and his family first, but where to you find a man like that. Most, most men think they are superior to their woman and they treat them that way, their way or else. Believe what???

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