Women and Sex
I get all kinds of negative feedback from women on other blogs where I suggest that she willingly and lovingly take care of her husband’s sexual needs. I really get hung out to dry when I suggest that most men need sex 3 times a week where most women force him to deal with a diet of sex once a week or less. Women talk about having to have sex is equivalent to rape.
This is a negative outcome of casual sex where women were in total control. They expect to go into marriage with that same total control. Control has no place in marriage. Marriage is about loving your partner and taking care of their needs. Most women and all feminists teach that women should only have sex when THEY feel like it and that men should just do without or masturbate if the wife does not feel like it. I find it ironic that these same feminists rail against pornography which men use as a masturbation aid. Talk about total dominance.
We also have problems with women and their churches where they teach that sex is dirty, bad and wrong and that “good girls don’t do it.” By the time that they are ready to embrace their sexuality, they are so negatively conditioned about sex that they are often ruined for life. This shows up in prim and proper undergarments where women refuse to wear lacy frilly lingerie for their men, Women often associate it with slutty women and reasoning that they are not sluts, that therefore it must be sinful and they refuse. It often shows up in what women refuse to do for their husbands in bed. Hebrews 13:4 says that nothing that a husband and wife do in bed together is sinful. I Cor 7 says that neither a husband or wife should refuse their partner sex, that their body is no longer their own but belongs to their partner.
Marabelle Morgan back in the 1970’s had a wildly successful ministry called the Total Woman Ministry where she advocated that women take better care of their husband’s sexual needs. Marriages were being saved and men became more romantic. Then the feminists made her an object of national scorn and the ministry died, They even made a propaganda film called The Stepford Wives to mock her. Afterwards the divorce rate skyrocketed. The problem is that kids are hugely negatively impacted from divorce. Judith Wallerstein did a landmark study on divorce and noted huge problems with the kids of divorce even into adulthood.
It has been said that “Behind every great man is a woman” the implication is that this woman is taking good care of him and his sexual needs. To not do it, is to sabotage your own relationship.
Women, men dream of happily ever after too. It consists of a woman who WANTS to take care of his sexual needs.