Giving Your Man a Great Blow Job and Getting Over The Yuck Factor

Giving Your Man A Great Blow Job and Overcoming Your Inhibitions About It

I am re-posting this article. Every day, it gets read by at least 4 or 5 people. In fact it is my number one read article. I write for women to get over their inhibitions over giving their men oral sex. A man feels cheated and rejected and unloved when a woman refuses him this sublime pleasure. A woman who refuses this pleasure is not giving herself completely to her man. I suggest getting over your inhibitions about this and become adept at pleasuring your man.

This is an age old discussion. There are many women who refuse to give their husbands blow jobs. “Ugh, gross, I am not going to do that”. “Little girl” inhibitions are cropping up again here. Do you want to have a Bill and Hillary marriage where your husband has to go to other women or hookers to get a blow job? That is the number one thing men visit hookers for. A great percentage of men who frequent prostitutes are married. By your refusal, you are then a stumbling block for him as forbidden in the chapter on sex and the bible. Some of you will give your men blow jobs but won’t allow him to come in your mouth. Some of you will give him a blow job but then will spit out his semen. You claim that you don’t like the taste. Imagine if your husband went down on you but then spit out the vaginal secretions that he got in his mouth. How likely would you want him to go down on you again? What if he would not go down on you because he claimed not to like your taste? Really, when you tell your husband that, you are telling him that you think that he is disgusting and more of that age old sexism where women are good and men are bad.

If you really want to be cherished by your husband, and you want to show him your love, you need to learn to give him good blow jobs. Any woman can lay there with her legs spread and think about other things while her poor husband pumps away at her. It takes love and commitment to take his penis (dick) in your mouth and make love to him. It is intensely personal and loving. Without it, he feels profoundly cheated and disappointed.

For those of you who have a problem with getting semen in your mouth, you can take an intermediate step. You can put a condom on your husband’s dick (penis) and give him the blow job and you are not going to get any semen in your mouth. You can use it as a “baby step” to make progress. You can feel him ejaculate but not actually get the semen in your mouth. You should use this technique as a way to progress to a full blow job where you allow your husband to come in your mouth and swallow. At the very least, you should use this technique to give him a blow job. I know of women out there who won’t even take their husband’s dick in their mouth. I ask you if you are one of those women, why did you even bother to get married anyway? You need to get over this. You can if you have the right attitude. You can through a desensitization process called “successive approximations.” This basically means getting a little closer each time. Others would call it “baby steps”. The point being is that you are getting closer and making progress in moving forward in pleasing and loving your husband.

Now I know that many of you out there will complain about taste or consistency. Neither of those issues needs to be a problem if you have the right attitude and practice the right technique. It is really a simple matter to solve. When your husband’s climax is imminent, instead of trying to block his ejaculation with your tongue, you simply let him shoot to the back of your throat. You then quickly swallow. This solves both problems. You won’t taste his semen because all of your taste buds are on the front of your tongue. Following my technique you therefore don’t taste his semen. You also don’t have the consistency issue to deal with because again it is not hitting your tongue. Allowing him to shoot in the back of your throat, it simply feels like a little extra saliva in your mouth. If you spit out his semen, you get it on your tongue and have the taste and consistency to deal with. You can do this if you decide to.

For all you feminists out there who claim to espouse equal rights, how is it fair for you to expect your man to go down on you and you don’t return the favor? Where is his equal rights? Besides that, your vaginal secretions taste remarkably similar to his semen. Hillary is a feminist who obviously does not give Bill blowjobs and look what that got her. Do you really think that they have a happy marriage? Do you think that they are achieving “happily ever after”?

If you have not given your husband a blow job but have now decided to, it is not difficult. He will love you for attempting to please him. You simply go down on him and suck. If his penis is limp, you can generally take his whole dick (penis) in your mouth. You suck on it like you are sucking a milk shake through a straw. You also place your tongue firmly against his dick (penis). As his dick grows to a full erection, you go down as deeply on it as you comfortably can without gagging. You then wrap your hand around his dick (penis) at that point as a marker and don’t go deeper than that when you start vigorously thrusting up and down on the shaft of his dick. If your jaw gets tired or you need to remove your mouth to catch your breath, it is imperative that you continue stroking his dick with your hand or he will lose the momentum of getting to the point of ejaculating. If you stop, then you will have to start all over again.

There are other very obvious reasons to give your husbands blow jobs. Most of you won’t consider having intercourse when you are on your period. Why should your husband be deprived of sex just because you are on your period? If you really love him and care about his needs, you won’t deprive him of sexual relief. After childbirth, you are forbidden from intercourse for 6 weeks on average. Again, why should your husband be forced to masturbate? Many women feel that they have the right to deprive him after childbirth. In fact many of you deprive your husband sex for months after giving birth claiming that you are too tired. He feels rejected, lonely and resentful towards you and the new baby.

Let me give you a technique that requires little energy expenditure from you and yet gets your husband off fairly quickly and keeps him happy and satisfied. This would involve two props: a pair of your lacy and silky panties and our Power Tool Vibrator. (go to our website to order this fantastic product) You give him a little foreplay by stroking your nipples across his penis (dick). You then start sucking his dick and take those silky panties, (the satiny back panel of the panties) and lightly stroke them across the underside of his scrotum (balls, nut-sack) This area is extremely sensitive to him. You continue to rapidly stroke very lightly with those panties on the underside of his scrotum while you are sucking on him. The silkiness of your panties causes him to think in terms of how silky the interior of your vagina (pussy) feels when it is well lubricated. You then turn the Power Tool Vibrator on high and place the bulb firmly on the base of his penis (dick). You simply hold the bulb of the vibrator firmly against the base of his dick while you are sucking him. It is a very powerful stimulant to him and will cause him to get off much quicker, thereby conserving energy on your part. It will also give him a mind blowing orgasm because of the combination of the sensation of you sucking him, stroking him with your panties and the powerful vibrator. Don’t be surprised if he screams in ecstasy in the most intense orgasm he has ever had.

Now for you women who absolutely refuse to give your husband a blowjob or who won’t let him come in your mouth, there is a variation of the above scenario. You simply not only stroke those silky panties under his testicles, but you wrap the silky side of the panties around his cock and stroke them up and down his dick. You then place the Power Tool Vibrator at the base of his dick and let him ejaculate into your panties. He will fantasize about coming inside of you. It will take care of his urgent need for sexual relief and is so much better than making him masturbate. You should never ever make your husband masturbate to relieve himself. He will have a lot of resentment towards you because you are not taking care of his sexual needs. The above technique is not the best, but you should promise him that you will never ever deny him sex again, even if you have to give it to him less than what he desires.

10 Responses to Giving Your Man a Great Blow Job and Getting Over The Yuck Factor

  1. kdaddy23 says:

    You make it sound so easy…

  2. It is easy once you have decided to do it.
    John

  3. Land of Kamasutra says:

    i am writing from the land of Kamasutra. Your posts rock! I am a married man with a kid. was not too keen on giving my blowjobs in the initial stages of my marriage. Later, she graduated to blowing me with a condom on, but she would never complete it in her mouth, it happens always on the outside with her hands. My requests have gone unheard. I love her, and I hope someday she will come around to going all the way. However, sans a condom is still a distant dream! Have you got any suggestions?

  4. Yea try showing her my post and say that you would like to discuss it. Let me know
    John

    • LOK says:

      I did chat up with her about the contents of your post, and I think it worked wonders. I did not want to show her the post directly though. She is on her periods these days. We started to fool around, and within no time I was in her mouth with the condom on. She did the usual stuff, and I just asked can you complete me in your mouth towards the end. That is exactly what she did yesterday, she sucked me off until mine was limp. This is a great result for me, all thanks to your wonderful posts. Maybe I will work on this, and someday she will blow me bare.

      • Just be sure to give her a lot of affirmation and how loved it made you feel and how much you appreciate her
        getting over her inhibitions about it and how happy it makes you.

        Blessings on you and yours
        John

      • Hey LOK you really want to give her pleasure and give her foreplay for anal by licking and tongue thrusting in her anus. She will love it, it is a sensational feeling. All you need do is to have her be clean. I really do recommend the KY and no condom. Make sure to be still once you have penetrated her for a full minute and then let her do the thrusting for maximum comfort and no pain on her part

  5. LOK says:

    Followed your advice to the T! What else could we do to get that spark back in our lives?

    • Hey LOK

      You might try reading my post How To Have Anal Sex and Even Climax from it. Part of the key is that you have to give her foreplay by licking her asshole and tongue fucking it preferably with her in the doggy position with her holding a vibrator between her legs while you are doing it. The key to pain free anal intercourse is KY Lube and let her impale herself on you while you are on your back. Once you are fully inserted she needs to wait for at least a minute to allow her anal sphincter to relax thus avoiding any pain and then allowing her to do all the thrusting to her comfort level.

      Let me know who it works for you.

      John

      • LOK says:

        That advice has added another dimension to our life under the sheets. The other day, we tried it out. We had baby oil as a substitute for KY. I made sure she orgasm’d first with man-on-top position, then oiled up the area between those inviting butts, put my condom on, oiled it up, and entered her from behind, I was going nowhere the first couple minutes, then I sensed some movement deeper, she felt a little ouch and then I was thrusting, it was definitely tighter and better in there, I came inside her butt hole in about 10 mins, and she was thrilled she could be give me another avenue to explore without going thru too much pain, that is normally associated with anal. I will try to take this to the next level by orgasming her anally as well. I have had hep C once, so I am not sure about rimming and going without condom. You make people’s lives better!

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