Today My Blog Went Over 100,000 Page Views Check It Out And Help Me Make My Book a Best Seller

May 30, 2012

I am calling on all my Christian friends to help me make my book a best seller. It is entitled: Sex Education For Adults, Secrets To Amazing Sex and Happily Ever After Too. It is based upon biblical principles. It also shows all the sex positive messages from the Bible. You know what you hear in church is mostly that sex is bad, dirty and wrong and that “good girls don’t do it”. They never ever teach you all the sex positive messages in the Bible. Sex is one of the big 3 that couples fight about.

That is another reason to help me make my book a best seller. Divorce in our country is about 50% and among Christians it is not much better. I teach couples how to stop fighting and instead have peaceful conflict resolution. Traditional marriage counselors don’t teach these very vital skills and this chapter is also biblically based. I tell my coaching clients that even if they are stone cold atheists, the scripture quotes are outstanding psychology in and of themselves. How can you argue against: ”Don’t let the sun go down on your anger” and “a soft answer turns away anger”

Sadly the ones most devastated by divorce are our kids. Most of the problems in our country stem from kids who grew up in a single family home. One need only look at the president of the United States to see how skewed your world view can be when you only have one parent. This is not God’s plan.

My book is unique in the sex self help and marriage self help genre. I can’t find anything like it on Amazon and it is surely needed. So do me a favor and spread the word by word of mouth. Here is what you can do to help. Re-blog this post if you have a blog, hit the Twitter button at the bottom to Re-tweet this post, subscribe to this blog by hitting the RSS feed at the top right corner of the blog and tell all your friends.

The book will be published on Amazon January 10, 2013. It will be an E-book but even if you don’t have an E reader you can order it from my web site as a downloadable PDF book so you don’t need an E reader to buy it. It will be $9.95 and I promise you that it will be the best $9.95 you ever spent or I will return your money. How many books give you a money back guarantee?

If you have a business, you can advertise it in my book. I have embarked on a best seller strategy and have been studying on how to sell books for 3 years now. You can be a tax deductible sponsor of my book for a mere $50 now or $100 when it goes to press. It is a novel way to bring more customers to your website. You can also sell it as an affiliate and I pay 40% commission if you order it from my site rather than Amazon.

So I ask you to pray about it and make a positive difference in the world.

Blessings on you and yours

John Wilder


Christians Help Me Make My Book a Best Seller

May 29, 2012

I am calling on all my Christian friends to help me make my book a best seller.  It is entitled: Sex Education For Adults, Secrets To Amazing Sex and Happily Ever After Too.  It is based upon biblical principles.  It also shows all the sex positive messages from the Bible.  You know what you hear in church is mostly that sex is bad, dirty and wrong and that “good girls don’t do it”.  They never ever teach you all the sex positive messages in the Bible.  Sex is one of the big 3 that couples fight about.

That is another reason to help me make my book a best seller.  Divorce in our country is about 50% and among Christians it is not much better.  I teach couples how to stop fighting and instead have peaceful conflict resolution.  Traditional marriage counselors don’t teach these very vital skills and this chapter is also biblically based.  I tell my coaching clients that even if they are stone cold atheists, the scripture quotes are outstanding psychology in and of themselves.  How can you argue against:  “Don’t let the sun go down on your anger” and “a soft answer turns away anger”

Sadly the ones most devastated by divorce are our kids.  Most of the problems in our country stem from kids who grew up in a single family home.  One need only look at the president of the United States to see how skewed your world view can be when you only have one parent.  This is not God’s plan.

My book is unique in the sex self help and marriage self help genre.  I can’t find anything like it on Amazon and it is surely needed.  So do me a favor and spread the word by word of mouth.

The book will be published on Amazon January 10, 2013.  It will be an E-book but even if you don’t have an E reader you can order it from my web site as a downloadable PDF book so you don’t need an E reader to buy it.  It will be $9.95 and I promise you that it will be the best $9.95 you ever spent or I will return your money.  How many books give you a money back guarantee?

If you have a business, you can advertise it in my book.  I have embarked on a best seller strategy and have been studying on how to sell books for 3 years now.  You can be a tax deductible sponsor of my book for a mere $50 now or $100 when it goes to press.  It is a novel way to bring more customers to your website.  You can also sell it as an affiliate and I pay 40% commission if you order it from my site rather than Amazon.

So I ask you to pray about it and make a positive difference in the world.

Blessings on you and yours

John Wilder

 

 

 

 


10 Romantic Dates For Your Spouse, Keep Dating Your Spouse

May 28, 2012

Women feel taken for granted by their husbands because once they get married most men do take their wives for granted.  Men you need to stop this and continue to romance your wife and make her feel special and she will make you feel special in return. Here are some ideas to help keep the romance alive.  You need to date your wife at least once a week.

1.  This one is expensive but will give her a lifetime of positive memories.  Take her out to a NICE restaurant and have reservations made at the restaurant and have tickets to the symphony.  Even if you don’t like classical music, it is awe inspiring to hear it in a great symphony hall.  If you really want extra credit have a limo pick you guys up and make love to her in it on the way home.  Most limo drivers are very sympathetic to romantic hanky panky in the back seat.  Having his window rolled up between you guys is optional depending on how exhibitionistic you want to be.

2. Here is another expensive one but guaranteed life long memories.  Take her on a balloon flight with breakfast and coffee in route.

3.  Take her for a dusk flight over your city and circle over your house in a small plane, hold hands in the plane.

4.  Take her to play minature golf and make sure to lose to her.  Then take her to the arcade and play arcade games together.  Wrap your arms around her and cop an occasional feel while doing these activities

5.  Take her to a state fair and eat junk food and ride the rides and make like teens again.

6.  Take her to an airshow, you will never forget what those planes do in mid air and it is thrilling and exciting and the food at the food vendors is cheap and parking is usually free.

7.  Go to the beach in the early evening and have a picnic dinner together and then make love when it gets dark and go skinny dipping afterwards, VERY ROMANTIC.

8.  Play hookie from work and take a mental health day and get lost exploring your city or a nearbye city. Make sure that the kids have a sitter and go make love in a motel room.  Sort of like an adult Ferriss Bueller’s Day off.

9 Ask her what her idea of a romantic date is and then give it to her.

10 Send her flowers for no reason, have a sitter for the kids and make her dinner at home and then clear the dishes and make love to her right there on the dining room table and eat her for dessert

 

 

 


YourTango Launches “Love-o-Matic,” The Love Fact Generator

May 25, 2012

http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/yourtango-launches-love-o-matic-the-love-fact-generator-153522615.html

YourTango Launches “Love-o-Matic,” The Love Fact Generator

Did You Know:

72% of women have considered leaving their marriage

33% of one-night stands turn into relationships

60% of married men have been unfaithful

Get More Irresistible Facts…
NEW YORK, May 24, 2012 /PRNewswire/ — YourTango.com, the digital leader in love and relationships, has launched Love-o-Matic, an addictive new app that lets users access hundreds of juicy, fascinating facts about love, dating, marriage, breakups, sex, infidelity and more.
Love-o-Matic offers an array of unexpected, informative and entertaining data. Just a sample of featured Love-o-Matic facts:
Impotence is grounds for divorce in 24 states.
The average single person goes on 100 dates before getting married.
Strippers who are ovulating make more in lap-dance tips than those who aren’t.
Men who kiss their wives in the morning, on average, live five years longer than men who don’t.
Couples who don’t have a TV in the bedroom have 50 percent more sex than couples who watch the tube in bed.
50% of men would break up with a woman if she gained a lot of weight.
Nearly 75% of Americans have fantasized about group sex.
22% of women ages 30 to 44 make more money than their husbands.
The average man’s ideal woman is 60 pounds lighter than he is.
Only 3% of arranged marriages end in divorce.
Beer lovers are 60% more likely to sleep with someone they just met.
The average affair lasts two to four years.
Married men who help with housework have sex more often than husbands who don’t help out around the house.
One in five long-term relationships starts while one or both partners is involved with somebody else.
“We have discovered that most people cannot help but compare themselves with others — especially in the incredibly private, personal realm of love and relationships,” states YourTango Founder & CEO Andrea Miller. “Our goal is to give users a fun way to see how they stack up, along with a bunch of spicy tidbits in an entertaining, clickable app.”
About YourTango:
YourTango.com is the digital leader in love and relationships. With a mission to help users live their best love lives, YourTango offers award-winning content, community, tools, and connections to relationships experts to over 3.3mm unique visitors per month.

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A Male Advice Columnist For Women To Get Advice as Well as Guys

May 25, 2012

I was always amused at Sex and The City’s Carrie the Sex Columnist. Being that I write about sex I just don’t get
women who want to go to her gal pals like Carrie did. Your women friends are just as clueless as Carrie and her
gal pals. If you are having trouble with a man, does it not make more sense to go to a trusted male friend for advice
on men. Going to your gal pals or your mom or sister is sort of like a guy going to his buddies and asking what it
feels like for a woman to be pregnant. Stupid when you think about it huh?

It is for this reason that in the very near future I am going to be launching my daily advice column. I will give advice
to women on their problems with guys (we really do think differently from you and your gal pals). I will also offer advice
to men on how to romance your woman and more importantly on how to make love to her better so that she is more willing
to make love with you when you want it. So the column will offer relationship, marriage and sexual advice free and very
frank.

Tell your friends about it. In addition to the daily free advice, I am also a marriage, relationship and sexual coach
with a great success record of about 80% whereas traditional marriage counselors have a horrendouos failure rate averaging
75%. I am so good that I offer a money back guarantee or you don’t pay if you feel that I have not helped. Call any 6
marriage counselors from the phone book and ask them if they will match my offer. (they won’t) You might even refer me
to Angie’s List (a subscriber referral service to good providers in different fields.

Until the new blog is up feel free to drop me any questions right here and try me out. I am doing this for the kids
because kids of divorce and living in a single parent home are a lot more vulnerable to life’s problems because they
need both parents in their lives full time.

So before you get a divorce try me as a last resort. Most people don’t really want to get divorced but they just want the
pain to stop. I can show you better ways to handle conflict in your relationship without hurting each other and more
importantly your kids.

I have prepared to handle your questions from a spiritual, psychological, sexual or physical problem. I have education in
all these areas. I have a BA with a double major in Bible and Behavioral Science. I also went to nursing school as well
as Graduate School for Clinical Psychology.

So let the questions begin. I am also a resident expert on the sites advice.lovedetour.com and yahooanswers.com


To Live Happily Ever After, Love Like A Puppy

May 23, 2012

You know that puppies are pure love.  How can you not love a puppy?

People make love too difficult. If you give love like a puppy, unconditionally

and with abandon, people should love you back.  The key is to get your loved

one to aggree to loving you back like a puppy.  There are entirely too many 

people who are nasrcissistic and self centered who take instead of give.

 

In life there are givers and takers. Givers give and takers take.  Invariably they get together

because it is a symbiotic relationship.  The problem lies in the fact that the giver burns out

because the taker rarely gives anything back in return.

 

If you are hooked up with a taker, I say sit them down and have a talk with them

and insist that they give back to you or you will throw them to the curb and find

someone who will give back.  If they don’t come around then make it stick and 

find someone who understands love is giving back and taking care of you as well.

 


Best Seller Book Campaign

May 19, 2012

I am very excited to start on a best seller book campaign.

The name of my book is entitled: Sex Education For Adults, Secrets To
Amazing Sex and Happily Ever After Too. My launch date is January 10, 2013.
It will be published as an E-book on Amazon.com

I feel that my book will help a lot of people. I am a marriage, relationship
and sexual coach. Surprise, there is a lot of lousy sex going on out there.
This is because there is no “school for sex” out there to teach men how to please
a woman. Not only that, churches teach kids that sex is bad, dirty and wrong
and that good girls don’t do it. I know, I am an ex Baptist minister.
They never teach the the sex positive messages from the bible.

Also I teach couples how to have peaceful conflict resolution instead of hurting
each other. I promise you it will be the best $9.95 you ever spent or I will
give you your money back. How many other authors offer that guarantee?

Also, if you are having trouble with your spouse, just email with your phone
number and I will call you and give you a free half hour consultation.
How about that for an offer. Should you enter into coaching with me,
I offer the same guarantee, if I don’t help you, you don’t pay. Call
6 marriage counselors out of the phone book at random and see if they
will match that offer. (they won’t) Don’t you think that they should
be held accountable?


35 VERY COOL QUOTES

May 18, 2012

I re-blogged this from a very cool site called Addicted2sucess.l I recommend that you go on over and take a look
at it and subscribe. Here is the link and enjoy the re-blogged post. http://addicted2success.com

35 Kick Ass Quotes!

‎”Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!” -Audrey Hepburn

NEVER GIVE-UP: “So many people can be responsible for your Success.
but only you are responsible for your failure.” – Unknown

There are two types of Pain in this world: Pain that hurts you, and Pain that changes you! – Unknown

Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places. – Unknown

‎”You are afraid to die, and you’re afraid to live. What a way to exist.” – Neale Donald Walsch

‎”Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.” – Ruth E. Renkel

‎”Anything is possible. You can be told that you have a 90-percent chance or a 50-percent chance or a 1-percent chance, but you have to believe, and you have to fight.” – Lance Armstrong

“He who knows nothing is closer to the truth than he whose mind is filled with falsehoods and errors.” – Thomas Jefferson

its not up to you how you fall. Its up to you how far you let yourself fall and how long it takes you to get back up and stand on your own two feet” – Sr. Tac Jeffrey Mitchell

‎”Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down.” – Charles F. Kettering

If you can’t be criticized for it, it’s probably not remarkable. Are you devoting yourself to something devoid of criticism? – Unknown

“It’s human nature to start taking things for granted again when danger isn’t banging loudly on the door.” – David Hackworth

“You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.” – Walt Disney

Push through the pain, and conquer the obstacles. Regardless of what you think today, it wont matter 5 years from now. SO DON’T BE AFRAID! – Unknown

Even the greatest was once a beginner. Don’t be afraid to take that first step. – Unknown

Do you give as much energy to your dreams as you do to your fears? – Unknown

Think outside of the box, create your own path in life. “You laugh at me because I am different; I laugh because you are all the same.”
~ Daniel Knode

‎”The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.” …so remember: great achievements take time, there is no overnight success. – Leo Tolstoy

NO EXCUSES: 99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses. – Unknown

You cannot dream yourself into a character: you must hammer and forge yourself into one. Every successful person did, what no one else was willing to do! – Unknown

The so called negative feedback is often love in disguise. Take full advantage! – Unknown

Many fear competition from others. But the biggest critic should be the person in the mirror. – Unknown

‎”Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something.” – H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Waiting to develop courage is just another form of procrastination. The most successful people take action while they’re afraid! – Unknown

The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow. – Unknown

Life is short, fragile and does not wait for anyone. There will NEVER be a perfect time to pursue your dreams & goals. – Unknown

‎”When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful.” – Eric Thomas

You will get what you want, when you stop making excuses on why you don’t have it. – Unknown

Why have you not broken from the pack? You’re playing it safe. Safe aint gonna get you sh!t in this world” -Stone Cold Steve Austin (WWE Superstar)

Don’t always scrape & search for compliments. Criticism is what builds character & strength! – Unknown

There’s a thin line between losing & winning. Losing breeds winners. The main recipe to success is through failures & hardships! – Unknown

Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Bill Gates, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein. – Unknown

Gold medals aren’t really made of gold. They’re made of sweat, determination, and a hard-to-find alloy called guts. – Unknown

A heart is a muscle..and what do muscles do when they are torn? They grow back STRONGER! – Unknown

Remember that guy that gave up? Neither does no one else. – Unknown


Best Seller Book Contest

May 16, 2012

I am going to have a contest for all my readers to guess the total number of books sold

during my best seller campaign with my book release on January 10,2013.  The prizes will 

be for the closest number of guesses for that week total to date.  If you would like to pitch your

products or service, you can include it as prize to induce people to buy my book during that 

week and thus increase your own online visibility and profit from my book campaign

The book is entitled:  Sex Education for Adults, Secrets To Amazing Sex and Happily 

Ever After Too.  It is written from a Christian perspective to counter the views taught in most

churches that sex is bad, dirty and wrong and that good girls don’t do it.  They never 

teach the sex positive messages in the bible.l

 

Not only will I show you how to have a better sex life but how to stop fighting with your 

spouse and instead have peaceful conflict resolution without hurting each other. The book 

will be first published on Amazon as an E-book.l  I am so confident that my book will help 

you, I am offering you a money back guarantee.  I also offer the same money back 

gaurantee on my coaching services.  Call a half dozen marriage counselors and 

ask them if they would be willing to match that.l  They won’t.  While the book is still under

construction I am also taking ideas on how to be more romantic how to seduce your partner,

better sex techniques, and problem resolution techniques that work for you.  You could

get published in my book if I can use your ideas.  Write me at marriagecoach1@yahoo.com.


Getting More Sex, Cater to Her Cinderella Syndrome

May 14, 2012

Guys you complain about not enough sex from your woman.  I am going to tell you how to get more.

If you put my tips to use, I guarantee that you will get more and better sex.

Every woman from the time that she was a little girl dreamed of “happily ever after” and fantasized about being the princess.  You need to cater to that, ESPECIALLY  when you are not trying to get sex.  If the only time that you pay attention to your woman in any romantic way is when you want to have sex, she will become immune to it and think of it as a chore on her “to do list” and will not be highly motivated to take care of you.

Instead, hug her when you are not trying to get her to have sex with you.  Come up behind her and wrap your arms around her and kiss the back of her neck.  Most women love this.  Send her flowers for no reason other than to remind her of how much you love her.  At night, take her in your arms and do a full body hug and hold it for ten minutes.  Wrap your arms around her and squeeze her breasts against your chest and your crotch against hers and just kiss on her and tell her how lucky you are to have her and how beautiful she is.  Then separate and just go to sleep holding her.  Believe me if you do this, she will be more than willing to make love to you more often.

When you do make love with her, spend more time with her breasts.  Kiss them, lick them, fondle them and suck them for at least ten minutes before doing anything else. Be sure to kiss her mouth to with tongue intermittently.  When you enter her, move in slow motion, don’t try to rush though it.  Sex feels good, why rush trhough it.  Wrap your arms under her back and again press her boobs to your chest and again tell her how good it feels to be insider her and how lucky you are to have her.

Once you are done, hold her and talk to her and again remind her that you love her instead of just rolling over and going to sleep.

I invite all of you guys to give me your own tips on how to make love to a woman and I will publish your comments

 

 

 


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