To Live Happily Ever After, Love Like A Puppy

You know that puppies are pure love.  How can you not love a puppy?

People make love too difficult. If you give love like a puppy, unconditionally

and with abandon, people should love you back.  The key is to get your loved

one to aggree to loving you back like a puppy.  There are entirely too many 

people who are nasrcissistic and self centered who take instead of give.

 

In life there are givers and takers. Givers give and takers take.  Invariably they get together

because it is a symbiotic relationship.  The problem lies in the fact that the giver burns out

because the taker rarely gives anything back in return.

 

If you are hooked up with a taker, I say sit them down and have a talk with them

and insist that they give back to you or you will throw them to the curb and find

someone who will give back.  If they don’t come around then make it stick and 

find someone who understands love is giving back and taking care of you as well.

 

17 Responses to To Live Happily Ever After, Love Like A Puppy

  1. You are so right. There must be a giver and taker in every relationship; however, there must be a balance. Each person in the relationship must take on the role of a giver or taker. Don’t get stuck in one role and miss out on the blessings of the other.

    Thanks for the article.
    Pamela
    Still Dating My Spouse
    http://www.stilldatingmyspouse.com

  2. Sis says:

    Hey! It’s good to see you again, I lost you for awhile there. Hope all is well in blogland for you.

  3. hi john. thanks for stopping by plucky umbrella!
    i’m an art therapist/life coach, semi retired (meaning i only see as many clients as i want!). where do you live/work? i might want to refer clients to you.
    regards, mary

  4. Smile says:

    Great article. I agree most people do make relationships much more difficult than they need to be. Most people also don’t have the guts to move on to something better if they’re in a bad relationship.

  5. peachyteachy says:

    thanks for the follow! hope to cultivate puppiness without as much mess.

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