More Romantic Suggestions for Men and Women

March 8, 2010

Women: If you are having a problem with your husband getting off too soon, you can combat that by taking charge once in a while and initiating the sex. Tell him that you want to play a game and tie his wrists to the headboard and that he can’t do anything that you are going to do everything. He has to be your sexual slave. You get on top of him and straddle his face and demand that he eat your pussy. In fact, do pelvic thrusts on his tongue. When he is erect, you can sit astride him and impale yourself on him. You then can control the speed of the intercourse so that he does not come too soon. In fact slow motion sex is great. This is where you give him just enough movement to maintain his erection but no so much that he gets off. You can use a vibrator on yourself to get off numerous times. Alternate positions where you also face away from him so that he can see himself buried in side of you going in and out. He will love the view. Make sure to keep the lights on so that he can get a good view. That position is the best for having a vibrator between your legs on your clitty to get off while having sex with him simultaneously. For those of you who can’t climax during sex, this is a great substitute so that you are experiencing a climax during intercourse. Using these techniques, you can keep him going for an hour or so without him getting off. You then put him out of his misery by sucking him off or riding him hard and fast, slamming your pussy down on him telling him that you want him to fill you up.

Men: You can also order your wife chocolates instead of flowers. As a bonus, consider that a present of chocolates will be less expensive than flowers and yet will be just as appreciated if not more so. In fact you need to do that on somewhat of a regular basis. We suggest that you get her a present of A Year Of Chocolate. We have a program on our web-site where you can pre-order to have a pound of chocolate delivered to her every month. Can you imagine the good-guy credits you will get with such a thoughtful present? Again, for maximum good guy credits have them delivered to her at the office in front of her girlfriends and coworkers. If you really want to be a hero, order the bigger box so that she can share a chocolate with her girlfriends. For much less than the cost of taking her out to dinner at a nice restuarant, you can romance her with something that she really wants and enjoys. Isn’t this investment worth increasing the quality and quantity of your sex life? Chocolate releases endorphins in her brain, causing her to think more sexually. In fact you can make feeding her chocolates a part of your foreplay technique. Get her into bed and then surprise her with the chocolates. You then start to feed her a few chocolates where you literally hand-feed her. You might then take the opportunity to spread some chocolate syrup on your cock and get her to lick it off. She will then be ready for some hot passionate lovemaking.

Women: Order satin sheets for your bed. It will feel good on your skin and on your man’s skin as well. It will make your lovemaking very sensual.

Men: If you really want to be a hero celebrate her birthday or your anniversary by having a limo pick you up to take you two to dinner. Make sure to go to a place that will have dancing. Slow dance with her. Slow dancing with your woman is a great foreplay technique. Hold her tight against you. She will love feeling you get hard against her, reassuring her that you still desire her sexually. Then on the way home, start kissing her passionately, feel her up and then make love with her in the limo. Don’t be in a rush, lightly stroke her face, then her boobs. Follow that up by sliding your hand gently up her skirt or dress. Follow that by stroking her outside of her panties. She will get soaking wet, then slide your hand inside her panties where you finger her and stroke her clitty. Believe it or not, this is much more common than you think. If you really want to be naughty tell the driver what you are going to do in advance and let him watch instead of having him pull the privacy panel up. There is something that is exciting and naughty about being a little exhibitionistic and letting him watch.(be sure to get your wife’s agreement on this before doing it. Tell her that she can be a real naughty girl. If she is not up for it then have the driver put up the privacy window)

Women: If you are going to be in an elevator with your husband, back up to him and rub your butt and/or hand against his dick (penis). Or you could stand behind him and to the side and grab his arm and rub your boob against the back of his arm. If you really want to be naughty, take his hand and slide it up your skirt from behind. You can stand in front of him so no one can see you, but he can feel you. You will feel very naughty and it is sure to get him excited and your panties wet.

How To Avoid First Date Jitters for Women and Have a Great First Date

March 6, 2010

How To Avoid First Date Jitters and Have a Fantastic First Date For Women

  You say that you would just as soon stay home than go on a first date?  The problem is that the first date is the means to the end of starting a new relationship.  Here are some tips to make the first date something exciting rather than something to dread.

     First of all, it is important to get in touch with your feelings why you dread the first date.  If you are honest with yourself, you don’t feel worthy.  This is because far too many women engage in negative self talk.  If you can’t love yourself, how do you expect anyone else to love you.  You have to develop a positive self esteem.  You have to consider yourself a catch that is worthy of that date.

   You can do this by simply setting down and honestly posting your good and bad points on a piece of paper.  Almost all women can come up with more good points than bad. This means that you automatically pass.  Now you have to work on adding good points and removing your faults.  The best way to do that is to concentrate on setting goals for yourself and achieving them.  Once you achieve a goal, you will feel better about yourself.  Keep doing that and your self esteem will skyrocket.

    Now you have to realize what a guy expects from a first date.  It is a job interview.  He is looking for you to communicate in very clear language that you will always respect him and that you will always take care of his sexual needs, willingly , lovingly and enthusiastically.  You really need to communicate that message to him without actually giving him sex.  Far too many women gave up sex way too easily and too soon hoping that the guy will develop feelings and have  a relationship with you.  Men are hard wired for the chase and the pursuit.  No, you have to hold off on the sex until there is a relationship.  Most guys will wait on the sex as long as you have convinced him that it is worth the wait.

     The way that you convince him that you are a sexual woman is to exude sexuality without being slutty.  You need to dress the part.  First of all, don’t even think about wearing those deadly dull, virginal white panties with no lace or worse yet cotton panties.  Cotton panties only belong on little girls and little old ladies.   You want to be wearing a frilly lacy bra, preferably unlined and frilly lacy panties.  Now he is not going to see these things, but you need to wear them so as to feel more feminine and sexual.  Now I know that some of you are going to say, I am not going to wear that slutty stuff, falsely assuming anyone who wears them, are slutty.  Here is a good time to tell you the old Italian proverb about the 3 things that a man looks for in a wife:  A good hostess for his friends.  A good mother for his children.  And a slut in the bedroom.

    Now you want to wear a tight clingy top and a short flirty denim skirt with high heels.  You only get one chance to make a first impression and you want to knock his socks off.

This is an impression that he won’t be able to get out of his mind.  I suggest that you  “accidentally on purpose” give him a flash of those sexy panties.  You also need to rethink your position on sexuality.  When the sex actually starts, you want to get over those ”little girl” inhibitions over things that you won’t do for a man in bed.  The last thing that you want him to feel the first time that he makes love with you is how much better his previous girlfriend was in bed than you.  You want to give him the best sex that he has ever had in his life, if you want this relationship to last.

    Now that you are facing the first date, and you have all of your tools at hand, there is one last final tip.  Take control of the conversation without him even realizing that you have.  This is much easier than you think.  Just keep asking him questions about himself.  Ask him what his hopes and dreams are, what are his interests and passions. Ask him where he would like to be in 5 years?  Ask him what his idea of a perfect woman is for a relationship.  Say, if God said that you could design your perfect woman, what would she look like so I could go out and find her for you, what would she look and act and think like?  In this way, you get tons of information about him and he does not even realize that you are nervous.  A couple of these first dates and you wiil be an old pro and will actually be excited for the first date instead of dreading it.  Good luck.  I can be reached at or on my blog at for additional help.

Romantic Suggestions For Men and Women

March 5, 2010

Men:  Take a romantic shower with your wife and wash her hair for her.  It will make her feel pampered.  While you are in there, shave her legs for her.  Sure she can do it herself, but it is romantic that you do it for her.  While you are at it, shave her bikini line and armpits as well. If she has a thick bush, trim it with scissors before you get into the shower. In fact, be naughty and shave her pussy bald for some fun that will also make memories. 

Women:  Men love to look up your skirt or dress and see your panties.  Make excuses to do that often with your husband in panties that he likes to look at. (That means getting rid of those boring white nylon panties with no lace) Wear skirts and dresses often around the house.  Suppose you guys are watching TV at home.  Have a casual denim short skirt on.  Slide away and lean up against the couch arm opposite him raising your legs and spreading them giving him a great look up that skirt.  You then slide a hand down those  panties and start stroking your clitty and fingering yourself and letting him watch.  He will love it.  Go ahead and get yourself off. He is guaranteed to get excited and appreciate your efforts on his behalf.  Again it reinforces to him that you are a sexual woman and desire him.  Trust me, by the time that you have gotten yourself off, he is going to ravish your body right there on the couch.  Let him.  Change positions too.  Get up on your knees and let him stand behind him and do you doggie style.  Stop him and change positions.  By changing positions, he is not nearly so likely to come too quickly.  Get him to sit down and sit down astride him and impale yourself on his dick (penis).  You can then control the speed.  Ride him slowly so that he does not come too fast.  Pull his shirt off and lean forward and rub your naked boobs on his chest.  Change positions again where you are lying down on the couch and put your legs up on his shoulders for some really deep, hard pussy pounding.   Incorporate two of women’s favorite food groups in your love play.  Whipped cream and chocolate.  Take that chocolate syrup and squirt some on her boobs and lick it off, you can also top it off with whipped cream  for a booby split sundae instead a banana split sundae. 

Women:  For all of you who have a problem with sucking your husband’s dick (penis) this will help you to get over it.  Just imagine coating his dick with chocolate syrup, how much fun will it be to lick it off or better yet suck it off.  In fact if you keep recoating his dick with whipped cream and sucking it off, you can end up sucking him off and letting him come in your mouth and you will still be tasting the whipped cream in your mouth instead of his man cream.  You both win with this proposition. 

Men:  Send your wife flowers for no reason.  If she works, make sure that you send them to her at her place of employment.  She will not only feel special because you sent them but she will enjoy that she got them in front of her co-workers.  It will create memories give you brownie points for romance. 

Romantic Suggestions for Men and Women to Keep the Sizzle in Your Sex Life

March 2, 2010

     One of the key things both persons in the marriage should consider is keeping their marriage fresh and avoiding boredom.  Too many couples settle into humdrum sex that is boring.  They always do it the same way, with the same techniques and at the same time of day and in the same place.  Let me ask you a question; would you like the same food and same meal at every meal?  Of course not.  It is no wonder that so many couples end up not having sex very often.  There was a time in my life that I was in a very bad place financially.  Because of that I had very little money for groceries.  As a result, I ate a lot of boxed cheap macaroni and cheese.  I got so sick of it; I never wanted to eat mac and cheese again.  For many of you, that is what your sex life has devolved to.  You need to spice it up with variation and keep it interesting.  For ideas, I have devoted this  whole chapter on romantic ideas for both of you that you have not thought about.  Use my ideas to stimulate your imagination to keep your sex life interesting.

     MEN:  You can do things around the house to keep sex interesting for your wife.  Remember, she wants to be swept off of her feet.  You need to do things that are unexpected.  You might try grabbing her anywhere in the house and plant a kiss on her that will curl her toes fondling her in the process.  Then pick her up and carry her into the dining room and lay her out on the table.  Tell her that you are going to eat her for dinner.  You then proceed to unzip those jeans and pull them off of her or hike her skirt or dress up and then remove her panties, or better yet rip them off.  You then sit down in the chair in front of her and perform oral sex on her  for an extended period and get her off 2 or 3 times.  You then take her right there on the table standing up with her legs up over your shoulders. 

WOMEN:  Pretend that you are a cat and find excuses to come and rub up against your husband.  Rub your boobs against his arm and shoulder.  It makes him feel good and reinforces to him that you are glad that you are his woman. 

MEN  If your wife is at the sink, come up behind her and wrap your arms around her and pull her hair back off of her neck and nibble on her neck.  This is a very sensitive area for a woman that will cause her go weak in the knees.  Proceed to slide your hands down her boobs cupping them and caressing them.  Slide your hand up her skirt or unzip those jeans and slide your hands inside her panties and stroke her clitoris and get her off right there at the kitchen sink.  It is very romantic.  Lose the attitude that you have to get off every time she does.  She will more sexually willing if you just give her a freebie once in a while where she does not have to put out for you.  It makes her feel pampered and special.

Women:  When he is watching football, come and sit in his lap and cuddle with him rubbing your boobs against him.  Give him a oral sex during half-time to make him feel special. 

 Men:  The next time that you take your wife out for dinner and a movie, (and you need to do that more) ask her to wear a skirt or dress.  Without letting her know it, secretly get an extra pair of panties out her panty drawer and put them in your pocket.  When you get her in the movie, caress your fingers up and down her upper thigh up under that skirt or dress.  Tease her and then slide your hand inside her panties and get her off right there in the movie theatre.  She will have to bury her head in your shoulder when she comes so as not to attract attention to what you guys are doing.  After you get her off, her panties are going to be wet.  You then surprise her and pull out the fresh dry pair of panties so that she can change into them and be comfortable during the rest of the movie.  Believe me this is going to make memories for her that she will never forget.  She will be impressed with not only your imagination and romantic notion, but that you cared about her comfort to think ahead and have a fresh pair of panties for her  to put on afterwards. 

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